A curated collection of articles, hot tips and expert advice for this life stage of caring for aging parents
Your First Steps in the Squeeze
This is your corner of the internet where caregiving gets real—where you can exhale, laugh (sometimes through tears), and know you’re not alone.
Are You Ready for Aging Parents?
Whether it’s planning ahead, seeking advice, or just having a conversation, small actions today can help you weather the storm.
The Plot Twists With No Warning
Will this be a story about thriving… or a cautionary tale about the family who couldn’t talk about car keys?
The Thelma & Louise Approach to Aging
Parents who once warned you about consequences now shrug off their own risks.
Navigating “Doing it Anyway” with Love
Let’s normalize we don’t have it figured out and this can be tricky and sticky but not impossible!
Aging Parents and the Hidden Mess
Are you ready for the mess that comes with caring for aging parents?
Letting Go & Moving Beyond Stuff
Downsizing forced me to confront the sticky, tricky, and sometimes icky emotions that come with the Adolescence of Aging…
Hidden Struggles & Tips for Coping
Instead of obsessing over the dozens of things that could go wrong, I started trusting myself to meet what was happening, moment by moment.
The Power of Staying Present
I used to spiral in the land of what-ifs. A counselor’s words shifted everything. Caregiving isn’t perfection; it’s presence.
Find Silver Linings & Celebrate Small Wins
Celebrate the small victories, both in your family and beyond. They are markers of resilience, love, and courage in the face of the sticky, tricky, and icky.
When One Thing Changes Everything
It took vulnerability to say, “I can’t do this alone,” but the relief was immediate.
The Hard Work of Letting Go
Letting go doesn’t mean losing everything. It means holding on differently, with love, with memory, with perspective.
When Conversation Turns Confrontational
We’ve learned that the path through these conversations isn’t paved with control it’s paved with compassion
Make Driving Less of a Debate
Here’s the hard truth - roles are shifting and difficult conversations are needed.
Are You Prepared for the Vulnerabilities?
When we can name the weak spots, we can prepare, plan, and soften the impact.
When Your Mom Turns Into a Teenager
The very people who once grounded you are suddenly the ones slamming metaphorical doors and insisting they know best.
Wealth Transfer or Family Fire?
We are in the middle of the largest wealth transfer in human history. Talk about a complicated hot potato! Protecting family bonds are priceless.
Naked & Afraid: The Caregiving Jungle
I was trying to navigate a landscape that made no sense, emotionally raw, uncertain who to trust, and afraid of every next step. I felt stripped bare.
Why “Caregiver” Makes Me Cringe
Adult children supporting aging parents are doing emotional heavy lifting that doesn’t fit neatly into a job description. It’s messy. It’s complicated.